Even with a solid foundation, he was not prepared for what happened after recovering from his surgery.
“The foot was hard to deal with my sophomore year, but I told myself that I was going to come out on top of it. I wasn’t really all that down on my foot because I had been dealing with it for so long. The knee was so sudden, and that was like my world fell apart.”
Fifteen minutes into his first full practice during the summer, PJ dislocated his kneecap and tore his PFL tendon.
He described that moment in one word. Devastating.
“I’ve always told myself that when you’re down and getting close to that 10-count, get up. Find a way to get up. Get up and find some stability. When you are sad or struggling, get up and develop a pattern of stability in your life. That was my biggest thing, continuing to find that strength and get out of that hole.”
He attributes getting out of that hole to those closest to him: teammates, coaches, and family.
“Hunter Tyson was huge for me. Having him as my roommate and as one of my closest friends on the team, it was special to have him around all the time. He was someone I could go and talk to. I had a loss in my family at that time, and everything felt like it was getting piled on at once.”
Being from right down the road also provided PJ something not everyone has – a mom within driving distance.
“I’m a big momma’s boy. So going home multiple times and having my mom there and to not necessarily talk about stuff, but just hear her voice and know things are going to be all right. I’ve got a girlfriend that I love to death, and she was big for me, too.”
PJ recalled a time during the early stages of his junior season where Head Coach Brad Brownell helped him tremendously.
“I had a lot of support around me, including Coach Brownell. There was plenty of times that he brought me in just to make sure I was okay.”
PJ reminisced about a conversation he had with Coach Brownell following Clemson’s loss to Iowa in November 2022.
“I was completely out of it mentally. He brought me into the meeting room after the loss. I played eight minutes and had 0 points and 0 rebounds. He said, ‘You’ve got to find a way to get yourself out of this and find a way to become yourself again.’”
“As I left the room, I realized he was right. If I’m going to feel bad for myself then I’m never going to get out of this. After that, it was get up and fight.”